It almost feels as if you have failed immensely at life when things don’t go the way you “planned”. It’s great to set daily goals, weekly goals, short term goals, and realistic goals; which are the hardest one of them all. It’s a beautiful feeling when our goals are accomplished. We just have to keep in mind that life will happen but learn to adjust. He who fails to plan, plans to fail but the one who plans in haste is sure to waste. You can’t plan to have fun, you learn to go with the flow and see where life takes you. You can’t realistically set out a “10yr plan” for your life, you may be taking your last breath in a second. We all want something, many of us want what someone else has but realistically only time  defines our lives. Live every day with the future in mind but don’t live with the future and forget about today.